
Originally Posted by
CST80
Sorry to hear about that man, I would love help you out but that's not even remotely feasible for me at this point as well. My sister had to have a Brain tumor removed and she was in the hospital for almost 2 months with complications, she came out fully recovered and she got double pneumonia that that almost caused congestive heart failure, but finally she's back to normal. But then our mother who's been suffering from mild demetia for the last 8 years condition has started to deteriorate and we've been in and out of the hospital with her for the last 2 years as well, UTI's dehydration every other day its something new, she's been in a nursing facility for the last month and will get out and go back home in about a week. So all the bills for that stuff what their insurance won't cover has been piling up. Add to that, I had to replace the air conditioning in my house, get a new stove, fix the plumbing and I've been sued twice in the last 2 years for not paying my credit card bills, so I'm currently on a debt settlement package. All the while because I have to help first with my sister and now helping my sister with our mother, I have no job.
Thankfully I keep anyone I date at arm's length and never let them get too entralled with me, I know that's a little harsh, but my nephew had his crazy ex threaten his life n multiple occasions and since I'm drawn to clingy broken things to start with, I always have my guard up expecting them to go haywire on me. Thankfully I've avoided having any kids, since I hate kids that's a plus, and thankfully my OCD never lets me forget to wear protection. Not to sound like I'm some cold asshole, I'm not, I'm just appropritely distant enough with anyone I date. Because I got way too invested in the girl I dated in my early 20's and when we broke up it devastated me. So I really feel for you and hope for the best, Good Luck Cory.